YOUR TIME WILL COME

              Kenya is two hours ahead of Nigeria, but it does not mean that Nigeria is slow, and it does not mean that Kenya is faster than Nigeria. Both countries are working based on their own " Time Zone ".

Some one is still single.. Someone got married and 'waited' ten years before having a child, there is another who had had a baby within one year after marriage.

Someone graduated at the age of 22, yet waited 5 years before securing a job; and there is another who graduated at the age of 27 and secured employment just after national service.

Joyce Meyer started her own ministry at age 41 and still today at 71 years old.

Someone became CEO at the age of 25 and died at the age of 50 while another became a CEO at the age of 50 and lived to 90 years.

Everyone worked based on thier Time Zone.. Some people have everything that work fast for them. Work in your " Time Zone ".

Colleagues, friends, relatives, associates, younger one(s) might "seem" to go ahead of you. Don't envy them, it's their " Time Zone ". Don't get into comparison mode as everyone comes with his individual time zone destiny to learn their unlearnt lessons of life.. Your time will come too when you have experienced that unlearnt lesson of life to enjoy that fuller experience.. Hold on, be Strong, and stay true to yourself. 

All things shall work together for everyone's good at their right time.
You're not late.., you're on YOUR TIME...!!
 

IS THERE AN END FOR IT ?

                      One night just before the shopkeeper was about to close the shop, a dog came into the shop. There was a bag in its mouth. The bag had a list of items to be bought and money. The shopkeeper took the money and kept the items in the bag.

Immediately, the dog picked up the bag of items and left. The shopkeeper was surprised and went behind the dog to see who the owner was.

The dog waited at the bus stop. After sometime, a bus came and the dog got into the bus. As soon as the conductor came, it moved forward to show his neck belt which had money and the address as well. The conductor took the money and put the ticket in his neck belt again.

When it reached the destination, the dog went to the front and wagged his tail indicating that he wanted to get down. The moment the bus stopped, it got down. The shopkeeper was still following it.

The dog knocked on the door of a house with its legs. Its owner came from inside

and beat it with a stick.

The shocked shopkeeper asked him,

" Why are you beating the dog? " to which the owner replied,

" He disturbed my sleep, It could have taken the keys with it ".

Is there an End for Expectation ? 

Absolutely NO.

This is the truth of life. There is no end to the expectations people have from you. 

The moment you go wrong, they start pointing at your mistakes. All the good done

in the past is forgotten. Any small mistake committed then gets magnified. 

This is the Nature of this Material World.
 

CUT THE ROPE

                          There lived a man, he wanted to climb the highest mountain in the world.  After many years of preparation he decided to give it go. Because he wanted to achieve glory alone, he started climbing the mountain alone.

It was cold, the night arrival, it was dark, zero visibility but he still wanted to climb. Instead of taking a halt, he kept climbing.

Suddenly, his foot slipped and he lost his control. It was a free fall, he felt the pull of gravity. In those moments of great fear, it reminded of all the good and bad things he did in his life.

He was now thinking of how close was his death, all of a sudden he felt a hard pull by a rope tied to his waist.

His body was now hanging, with only a support of rope, He cried and screamed, "Help me God ".

A voice came from cloud, " What do you want me to do "?
The man cried, " Save me God ! "

The voice came, " Will you do as I say " ?

The man cried, " Yes anything, Please save me ".

The voice came, " Cut the rope tied on your waist ".

The man did not cut the rope and held it by all his strength.

Next morning when the rescue team arrived, it said that the climber was dead and frozen, he was holding on his rope which was frozen,

Only Six feet above ground !

So, How attached are you with your rope ?
Will you let go ?

MORAL : Sometimes, It is better to let it go.
 

WHAT HAPPEN TO THE WOOD CUTTER ?

WEST AFRICAN STORY ABOUT TROUBLE..,

            Bwana Shida was going out to chop wood one day for a fire. He was working to fell it on a hot day and he was almost finished when... " Suddenly he heard a roar behind him and scrambled up the the tree lickety-split. Lion...!! He looked down and saw a lion... but just as he thought he had gotten to safety high up in the tree branches, he turned and saw a.... What dangerous animal do you think might be in the tree ? Yes, A Poisonous Snake...!! He thought to himself " I'll just jump in the river where the snake and lion won't follow me, but when he looked down, he saw another sharp row of teeth waiting for him. Crocodile...!! 

Bwana Shida dangled in the breeze, threatened every which way by aggressive dangers. He'll die ! Things only got worse for Bwana Shida as the wind began to pick up and make it difficult for him to keep his gri after he was already tired from working. Nonetheless, Bwana Shida said to himself,                " I'm just going to hold on as long as I can and wait to see what happens. 

Just when the fortune seemed most impossible to turn for the better: The wind made the tree fall, which pinned the lion and snake, and the sound of the mighty tree cracking sent the  Crocodile into a watery skedalle that took him out of predatory reach. To his astonishment, Bwana Shida walked away unharmed.

MORAL: When things are tough you have to hold on, and that when things are tougher you have to hold tigher, because you never know what the wind may blow your way. 
 

CUTE LETTER FROM A NEWLY MARRIED GIRL TO HER MOTHER.

MY MOTHER..,

MY ROLE MODEL..!

  Dear Maa,

           Like every normal girl, I was excited about marriage right from my childhood days. I never thought beyond the time that I would spend happily with my prince charming.

But today when I am married, I realize that marriage is not all roses. It's not just about being with your beloved and having a happy time. There is so much more to do it. It comes with its own share of responsibnilities, duties, sacrifices and compromises.

I can't wake up anytime I want to. I am expected to be up and teady before everyone else in the family. I can't laze around in my pyjamas throughout the day. I am expected to be presentable every time. I can't just go out anytime I want to. I am expected to be sensitive to the needs of the family. I just can't hit the bed anytime I want to. I am expected to be active and present around the family. I can't expect to be treated like a princess but am supposed to take care of everyone else in the family.

And then I think to myself, " Why did I get married at all ? " I was happier with you, maa. Sometimes I think of coming back to you and getting pampered again.

I want to come home to my favourite food cooked by you every evening after a nice outing with friends. I want to sleep on your laps like I have no worry in this world. But then I suddenly realize, had you not got married and made such sacrifices in your life, I wouldn't have had so many wonderful memories to hang on to. And suddenly, the purpose of all this becomes clear - to return the same comfort, peace and happiness to my new family that I got from you.

And I am sure that as time would pass, I would start loving this life equally as you do. Thank you Maa for all the sacrifices and compromises you made. They give me the strength to do the same.  
I Love you Maa..!!

Dedicated to Emotional, Cute, Pretty, Sweet & Sincere Girls.

That's Me.. That's You.. That's a Girl...! 

Parent's Princess.., Husband's Queen...!
 

ABOVE FATHER NO OTHER

 Photo courtesy : PRIYANKA SUKUMAR.

 A poem by SAGAR SHARMA,

At age 8, Your dad buys you ice cream.

You thanked him by dripping it all over his lap.

At age 9, He paid for piano lessons.

You thanked him by never practicing.

At age 10, He drove you all day from soccer to one birth party after another.

You thanked him by jumping out of the car & never looking back.

At age 11, He took you & your friends to the movies.

You thanked him by asking to sit in a different row.

At age 12, He wanted you not to watch certain TV shows.

You thanked him by not listening.

At age 13, He suggested a haircut.

You thanked him by telling him he had no taste.

At age 14, He paid for a month away at summer camp.

You thanked him by never writing him.

At age 15, He came home from work, looking for a hug.

You thanked him by ignoring him.

At age 16, He taught you how to drive his car.

You thanked him by sneaking out with it.

At age 17, He was expecting an important call.

You thanked him by being on it all night.

At age 18, He cried at your graduation.

You thanked him by staying our partying.

At age 19, He paid for your college tuition,

drove you to campus & carried your bags.

You thanked him by saying bye outside the 

dorm so you wouldn't get embarrassed.

At age 25, He helped to pay for your wedding

& told you how much he loved you.

You thanked him by moving far away.

At age 50, He fell ill & needed you to take care of him.

You thanked him by reading about the burden parents become to their kids.

And one day, He quietly died.

Everything bad you did came down on YOUR HEART.

"ABOVE FATHER NO OTHER"  :-)

 

RATAN TATA'S SPEECH

                    Don't just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. Balcanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order. 

There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions. Do not take life seriously.

Life is not meant to be taken seriously, as we are temporary here. We are like a prepaid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. In addition, 50 years is just 2, 500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up ?.....! 

It's ok, Bunk few classes, score low in couple of papers, take leave from work,
fall in love, fight a little with ur betterhalf.., It is ok.. 
We are people, not programmed devices...!

" Don't be serious, Enjoy Life as it comes "
 

GINGER GETS SPICIER WITH AGE

               An old lady picked out 3 tomatoes at a stall. The hawker weighed them 
and asked for 4 dollars.

" Actually I just want to make soup and no need for that many ".
The old lady took the biggest tomato off the scale.

" 3.5 dollars ". The hawker took another look at the scale.

Before other customers nearby had a chance to warn the old lady about the 
scale being fishy, she dropped 50 cents on the table and left with the largest tomato.

MORAL : Older the Age, Wiser the Mind.