MY MOTHER..,
MY ROLE MODEL..!
Dear Maa,
Like every normal girl, I was excited about marriage right from my childhood days. I never thought beyond the time that I would spend happily with my prince charming.
But today when I am married, I realize that marriage is not all roses. It's not just about being with your beloved and having a happy time. There is so much more to do it. It comes with its own share of responsibnilities, duties, sacrifices and compromises.
I can't wake up anytime I want to. I am expected to be up and teady before everyone else in the family. I can't laze around in my pyjamas throughout the day. I am expected to be presentable every time. I can't just go out anytime I want to. I am expected to be sensitive to the needs of the family. I just can't hit the bed anytime I want to. I am expected to be active and present around the family. I can't expect to be treated like a princess but am supposed to take care of everyone else in the family.
And then I think to myself, " Why did I get married at all ? " I was happier with you, maa. Sometimes I think of coming back to you and getting pampered again.
I want to come home to my favourite food cooked by you every evening after a nice outing with friends. I want to sleep on your laps like I have no worry in this world. But then I suddenly realize, had you not got married and made such sacrifices in your life, I wouldn't have had so many wonderful memories to hang on to. And suddenly, the purpose of all this becomes clear - to return the same comfort, peace and happiness to my new family that I got from you.
And I am sure that as time would pass, I would start loving this life equally as you do. Thank you Maa for all the sacrifices and compromises you made. They give me the strength to do the same.
I Love you Maa..!!
I Love you Maa..!!
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